Discussing the number of previous ones with a current partner, each person names an acceptable figure for himself, often underestimating it, said sexologist Artur Salakhov. In a conversation with the Ufa1.ru portal, he gave advice to lovers to discuss past experiences of intimate relationships.
According to him, if a partner reveals himself in such a dialogue, then this has a positive effect on relationships. However, Salakhov noted, it is not worth talking about the details of your sexual experience with an ex-partner, especially in comparison with the current one, since such conversations are offensive to both men and women. In cases where the partner reacted negatively to a large, in his opinion, the number of previous lovers, the relationship may worsen, the sexologist warned. “If he has his own attitudes about this, then this can worsen relations accordingly. If they are not, then he will consider the woman experienced and will feel good. It’s not your problem as a person. These are your partner’s attitudes,” Salakhov explained. Related materials: Sanctions on the bed. How did the conflict in Ukraine affect the intimate life of Russians? above them?May 28, 2022 Some people, Salakhov continued, do not underestimate the number of their partners. “There are quite frank people who pay a lot of attention to sexual experience, as some believe that if you had little experience, then you are not interesting. And if two such people meet, then they can honestly talk about it, be happy for each other and develop sexual skills together, ”concluded the specialist. Earlier, sexologist Elena Rumyantseva told what a woman needs to know and weigh when agreeing to a man’s offer to have a threesome. According to the sexologist, if the option of group sex is really unacceptable, it is important to openly tell your partner about it.